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The gay pilot
By
Capt. Menaka Fernando
“How does the aviation industry in Sri Lanka handle this issue?”
“How are gay pilots treated by their colleagues?”
These were two questions that were raised at a Christmas party
organised last month by a gay airline crew group in Dubai.
Needless to say, some of my best friends are gay. However, ours
is not a gay-friendly environment and most of our gay pilots
usually keep a very low profile when at home base.
Although this situation can vary from country to country, in Sri
Lanka and other South Asian airlines in general, there is always
that unwritten ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy. Having said that,
due commendation must be given to the airline fraternity in Sri
Lanka, which has never subjected a gay crew member to a hostile
anti-gay environment.
In comparison to some Western airlines (‘Atlanta bias panel
rules against gay pilots’ by Andrew Keegan), hardly anybody in
our local aviation industry maintains an anti-gay sentiment that
motivates discriminatory treatment.
Twenty years ago, the standard image of an airline captain was
the silver-haired, middle-aged pilot, possibly married to a good
‘home-maker’ wife with an average of two children who would
probably be in college or university; the conventional sterotype
airline pilot. This was also the era of the ‘macho’ pilot, where
testosterone generally ruled.
Although
some studies show homosexual and bisexual men to have more
testosterone (on average) than heterosexual men, I honestly have
no idea whether or not higher testosterone levels help someone
to pilot an airplane. Thus, it is not the author’s intention to
perpetuate false stereotypes by correlating testosterone levels
with sexuality. What is obvious, however, is the increase in the
number of gay flight crew of both sexes.
“I really can’t see why it should be an issue. Being gay means
you are attracted to the same sex. What on earth does that have
to do with flying?” asked one gay female pilot. “I don’t care if
my fellow crewmember is gay. All I care about is whether he or
she can fly.” That is the prevailing view of many airline crews
in the industry.
Earlier in my career as an aviation lecturer and manager of a
flying training school, I had several student pilots who were
openly gay. No one seemed to have a problem with them at the
flight school.
One gay student pilot broke away from his long-time partner,
married a ground hostess and is now the father of two children.
Today he is a captain of a reputed airline. His friends and
family always ask him whether he faces discrimination, but
according to him, once inside the flight deck, nothing really
matters to fellow pilots other than your ability and skill.
Another pilot confessed, “At times I feel an intense urge to be
accepted… This feeling often gets out of proportion and becomes
counterproductive when carrying out my duties in the flight
deck.”
Fortunately in Sri Lanka, pilot promotions are based on a
seniority system and a person’s sexual preference or marital
status does not affect their promotion.
So is there is a flipside to being a gay pilot? Not really. In
some airlines in the West, virtually all the male flight
attendants, male check-in agents and ground handling agents are
supposed to be gay. So why not pilots?
Either way, the image of the future airline pilot is changing
fast with more women in the flight deck as opposed to the
silver-haired gentleman of yesteryear. Moreover, out of the
younger generation males, a higher number of gay men are taking
to the air than ever before. Some even predict that the entire
airline industry will be gay in another 50 years!
In my view, gay and lesbian pilots are a unique lot. They are
extremely talented, creative, intelligent and a pleasure to have
around. They have their own international network too, known as
the National Gay Pilots’ Association, which is a very active
organisation (http://www.ngpa.org
).
One can be homophobic, but at the end of the day, what matters
most is whether a pilot, gay or straight, can handle an aircraft
worth millions of dollars,with many lives on board.
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